Sunday 25 May 2008

conflict between 2 friends........

Few days ago, 2 of my hostel friends were fighting due to very little problems. One of my friends (Mr A) came 2 my room and knock the door at around 1a.m. He told me that his roommate which is other my friends (Mr B) is opening the light and playing computer games. Mr A asked me told Mr B that it already very late and asked him stops playing the games. Besides that, Mr A also told me that tomorrow morning he had early lecture so I told him ok and I goes to his room and tell Mr B about this. When I told Mr B, He told me that Mr A just off the light and he already on the way to close the Computer. Due to this problem, both of them began their fighting. In the next few days only some small things happened which only said each other. Until yesterday evening, Mr B went back to room after having his exam. He notices that Mr A does something in the door without telling him. Then, he felt very angry and at that time he received a call from his friends. According to Mr A,Mr B had said something bad word about Mr A to Mr B friend. Then Mr A also said some bad word to him (Mr B) by loudly. After this, both of them come to find me and told me this problem. After thinking I decided don’t want to care their problems but due to one of my friend said if their problems not settle once day I can’t have peace days. So, I went to their room and asked them told what they not like each other by face to face. After I heard what they said, I can conclude that both of them got wrong places.



After this case, I had think that how my 2 friends can start fighting due to very little things. Does fighting is very fun??? The reason I think like this because both of them live in same room, come from same hometown, their ages, races and other also same also can fighting. What is this mean????? Haiz……… In conclusion, I think this will happen because of both of them less communicate, not bertolak-ansur, not try to respect each other. From here we can see How IMPORTANT that people need to communicate, try to Bertolak-ansur and respect each other. Finally, I thank God that this problem had been cool down now.

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